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An Overlooked Interview Question That Could Make or Break Your Career
If you’re a physician looking for a position at a health system or practice, you are probably prepared with a pile of questions related...

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Sep 253 min read


It’s Not Your Job’s Job to Bring You Joy
When we choose a career in medicine, it's often because we’re driven by a deep passion. We have a calling to help others, to be of...

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Aug 23 min read


Beyond Labels: A Pediatrician’s Reflection on Unity
On the surface, we seem so different. Our backgrounds, beliefs, appearances, and identities often feel more pronounced than ever these...

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Jun 143 min read


Walking Through the Mess
Yesterday, as my daughter and I took a walk together, we noticed a family of geese doing the very same thing. It was so cute, we had to...

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May 182 min read


The Everyday Path to Reinvention
The other day, during a yoga video, the instructor shared a story about a man who despite being older and out of shape, decided to...

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Mar 272 min read


From Overthinking to Inner Knowing
“Hold on, let me overthink that.” Those are the words on the coffee mug my sister bought for my mother. I laughed out loud when I saw it...

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Feb 193 min read


Pre-tirement: When It's Time to Evolve, Not Retire
As I write another letter of recommendation for a medical assistant pursuing their dream of becoming a nurse, I’m filled with mixed...

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Jan 102 min read


Breaking the Cycle: How to Build Habits That Actually Stick
Last night, as I was eating, not one, but four of the delicious brownies my daughter baked, I started thinking about failed New Year's...

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Dec 11, 20243 min read


How to Make the Ordinary Extraordinary
A couple of weeks ago I attended back-to-school night for the last time. I left the office in a rush, with unsigned charts and unfinished...

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Oct 9, 20242 min read


Are You Being Your Authentic Self?
This spring, my husband decided to plant a garden. In one corner, he planted okra—a vegetable we hadn’t tasted but wanted to try based on...

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Sep 3, 20242 min read


Perception and Pride
On June 22nd, I joined friends and colleagues and went to the Greenport, Long Island Pride parade. It was a day filled with love and...

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Jun 23, 20243 min read


Mother Yourself Today and Every Day
Mother’s Day is a time to recognize mothers. These are my kids (from more than a few years ago). As a mother, I’m almost an empty...

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May 8, 20242 min read


Underneath the Noise is Stillness
It’s been four years since COVID hit the scene and it hit my family head-on. A couple of years ago a friend asked me to document my...

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Mar 17, 20246 min read


How to find enough time
Do you feel like there is never enough time in the day? Feel overwhelmed, time crunched, frazzled? Nowadays everyone seems to feel...

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Feb 27, 20243 min read


Beware the thinking mind.
The mind is both a blessing and a curse. It can think, create, and plan but left unchecked, thinking and planning can become obsessive...

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Jan 21, 20242 min read


Distraction or welcome detour?
Question. What do a rainbow and a car crash have in common? Answer: Both distracted me while I was driving yesterday. Yesterday I had...

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Dec 30, 20232 min read


Stop beating yourself up!
December 15, 2023 Do you ever notice how much harder you are on yourself than you would ever be to your friends or loved ones? I saw...

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Dec 15, 20232 min read
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